နႏၵာ႔အျမင္ေတာ႔ လူတေယာက္ကုိ ျမင္ျမင္ျခင္း ခ်စ္နုိင္မယ္လုိ႔ မထင္ဘူး။ ျမင္ျမင္ျခင္း စိတ္ဝင္စားမိတယ္။ Attractive ျဖစ္မိတယ္။ ဒါေၾကာင္႔ သူ႔ကုိ ရင္းႏွီးေအာင္ သူ႔အေၾကာင္းေတြ သိေအာင္ လုပ္တယ္။ အခ်ိန္အတုိင္းအတာ တခုနဲ႔ သူ႔ကုိ Get to know better ျဖစ္လာမွ လက္ခံလုိ႔ရမယ္... ခ်စ္လုိ႔ရမယ္ ထင္တယ္။ ဒါေၾကာင္႔ Attractive at First Sight ဆုိပိုမွန္မလားပဲ။ You really have to be attractive to someone physically first ေလ.. Right??
အေနာက္ႏုိင္ငံေတြမွာ Majority of Couples ေတြ တေယာက္နဲ႔တေယာက္ I like you, I am so into you လုိ႔ပဲေျပာတာ မ်ားပါတယ္။ တေယာက္အေၾကာင္းတေယာက္ တကယ္ သိျပီးမွ I Love You ေျပာၾကတယ္။
အခုခ်ိန္ထိ ဘဝမွာ ေယာက္်ားတေယာက္ကုိ လြယ္လြယ္နဲ႔ I Love You လုိ႔ေျပာတာေတာ႔ ခပ္ရွားရွားပဲ။ :))
Personal Opinion တခုပါ။ လြတ္လပ္စြာ သေဘာထား ကဲြလဲြနုိင္ပါတယ္။
Let me tell you my experience.
when I was too young, I think I loved girls in the first instance if they are nice and beautiful. I approached them to say I love you. :)
After 25, I changed. I could not love them when i met for the first time. when I was interested, I approached and checked them first the way they speak, the way they think, the way the eat. Some girls look quite beautiful, but their way of thinking and their idea were rubbish. Some have morbid jealously. Some are greedy. Some are too much pushing far beyond the reality. One girl took many phone calls from her friends while we were dating. One girl had habitual bad breath. My small piece of love disappeared for many reasons before saying anything.
So far my recent girl is not bad. Perfect for me. i did say I love her during our 4th date at nearby Italian restaurant. The only small thing is that she admits she sometime remembers her first bloke who dumped her. For me, that's fine. We have got a good time.